A Harmonic Existence
Every year I gleefully anticipate the arrival of wild rose bushes. They brighten summer greens and cheerfully inhabit the surrounding space. Their nature is pleasant and easy going. Bobbling in the breeze they sway about effortlessly. Resistance is set aside as they adjust to nature’s ever-changing state. Without resistance an existence of harmony surfaces; paving the way for a greater sense of joy and contentment. Negating resistance is not an easy task and one that must be revisited often.
Debbie Lamey-MacDonald
Powell’s Point Park, Nova Scotia
My Park Story
On this beautiful summer morning I had etched out some time to paint in the park. I truly love the appearance of wild rose bushes every year and knew my time was limited in capturing them from life. Once I got settled in an unexpected event occurred! Now I need you to picture this to set the scene. I am quietly sitting painting and thoroughly enjoying the peacefulness and solitude of nature. The park is very quiet and not many visitors are apparent.
Suddenly, a camper truck rolls in and a gentleman gets out. He saunters down to where I am painting and gestures to the picnic table right beside me and asks if I would mind if he set up for a little outside party. Now you need to know that this park is large and there are many picnic tables available! Not to mention that they were all free in every area of the park that morning.
Of course I was dumbfounded and stumbled over my words as I nod towards the table beside me saying “Oh you mean this picnic table right here?!” I am diplomatically saying that I will be an hour or so. Of course it is hard to be assertive in a public park; so in the end he ended up pulling his camper truck right up beside the table and busily started getting ready for his two companions to appear.
My first thoughts were “Oh no how am I going to get this plein air painting finished before his wife and daughter arrive?” Determination set in and I continued to work on my painting with the intent of completing a greater portion of it. I must admit my visitor was quite quiet as he went about his preparations.
Finally his company arrived! Oh my goodness! Quiet they were not!! Loud talk began, country music filled the park for a country hoe down and pounding began as lobsters were cracked opened! Thank goodness I was almost finished of my painting and knew I was going to have to pack up and retreat to another location in the park in order to write my reflection.
All in all I had to laugh at the event! They were friendly people and well intended I am sure. I actually chuckled at the bizarre happening on my way home and had fun tweeting about it on Twitter later. Thank goodness I was able to concentrate and actually only had to tweak my painting a bit once home.
It is unexpected events like this and our reactions that make life harder or smoother. I like to take the road of least resistance and find a solution rather than trudge against the tide. One Park Lesson I did learn from this event though is to always occupy the picnic table beside me–never leave it empty! Secondly, expect the unexpected in plein air painting–you just never know what adventures await you!






7 Comments
What a delightful story Debbie!! It was a good laugh too, and thanks for sharing it with us.
~Melody
Thanks for visiting Melody! So happy you got a good laugh
Sometimes you just have to look at the funny side of life!
You showed the same easy going and pleasant nature as the roses you set out to capture! I am not sure that I would have had the patience to see the existence of harmony in that situation. Good for you to see the humor in it all and come away with a smile and a beautiful painting!
Hi Deborah
Appreciate your nice comments! Thanks
Looking at the brighter path just seems to be easier. I was so happy I actually got my painting finished. It was a plein experience I will not likely forget! LOL
Hi Debbie,

I can only imagine the look of disbelief that would have come to my face if that fellow would have asked me the same question. Although, I would have answered the same rather than rock the boat…or as you say “resist”.
People’s motivations for doing the things they do are sometimes very baffling. But then, who knows, maybe he’s been setting up a picnic there every year for the past 20 years and that just happens to be “their spot”. Or, maybe he’s the one who planted the roses?!
Regardless, your artwork never ceases to amaze me. I love the gentle, warm tone to your backgrounds. They always seem to make the colors of your flowers pop perfectly. So natural.
Can you please set up a week of painting classes at Powell’s Point Park next summer so that I can come and participate and learn?
As always, thank you for sharing your talent.
–Cheryl
http://www.cherylkugler.com
I love wild roses ( I saw the link on Twitter). I confess that I probably would have been annoyed by the intrusion. LOL! You are quite right though, reaction is everything!
Love this story!!I am always fighting my irritation when I am interrupted/which is often!! Not quite this much though. I do love your work and am continually inspired by not only the technique but the feeling of harmony.
Thank you so for sharing your lovely art & stories,
Ronelle